BDSM Community Resources and Great NYC Dungeons


Whether you’re exploring BDSM for the first time, or exploring NYC for the first time, you can’t exactly Yelp “best dungeons in NYC”. We’ve got you covered with the following list of dungeons and resources to satisfy your intrigue and desire in the big city. We’ll start you out with a few resources to explore on your own, and then a nice long list of dungeons to satiate your curiosity. Just call us your Buzzfeed for BDSM.

The Resources

Let’s start you out with a few resources:

This Winkyour sexual save the date

The blog This Wink is self-described as “this week in kink”. Think of it as your weekly newsletter of all the kink-related and sex-positive goings-on in NYC…straight to your email. Your inbox is about to get a whole lot more exciting.

The Eulenspiegel Society—your kinky sex-ed

The Eulenspiegel Society (also known as TES) is the perfect place for beginners to learn about the BDSM community.  The Eulenspiegel Society is a non-for-profit educational and social group. Check it out for workshops, meetings, and events in the Tri-State area. Perfect for the baby BDSM-er.

KinkBNB—your grown-up Airbnb

Yes, you read that correctly. Just as people let you stay in their home on Airbnb, on KinkBNB, people provide you with a place to fulfill all of your kinkiest fantasies. Places range from beach getaways to prison cells. Co-founder Darren McKeeman was inspired by the difficulties of traveling with your kinky products and the desire “to make it [BDSM] more acceptable and normal for us.”

The Dungeons

Now that you’ve gotten all nice and informed, we thought we’d give you a sampling of our favorite dungeons in the Big Apple.

Paddles NYC—the friendly S&M club

Paddles is the perfect beginner’s BDSM experience. Not a sex club, Paddles is an accepting space for those looking to play and burn off some steam.  Events are hosted weekly with themes for geared individually toward heterosexual and homosexual participants. To ensure a safe environment, photos, videos, and booze are not allowed. 

250 W 26th St, New York, NY 10001, Between 7th Ave & 8th Ave, Chelsea

Mistress Elizabeth—the classic

Mistress Elizabeth claims to be the oldest, safest, and cleanest dungeon in NYC. Book sessions with a Mistress in person or over the phone, and choose between ten different play rooms or one of the four dungeon rooms.  As classic as Cadillac, Mistress Elizabeth provides rooms that range from office/school room to rock prison room.

W 38th St, New York, NY 10018, Hell's Kitchen, Midtown West

La Domaine Esemar—the full treatment

Located three hours from NYC, La Domaine Esemar is the perfect place to fully immerse yourself in your desire. It is a premier professional dungeon, that works to free people to explore their complete sexuality.  Their services include sessions with mistresses, masters, and slaves, who are highly trained on “human sexuality, the psyche, dominance, and submission”, workshops, parties, bookings of private rooms for your own use, and ceremonies.

Located in the foothills of the Berkshires (exact location provided upon booking an appointment)

Pandora’s Box—the dependable dungeon

Pandora’s Box is located in the heart of Chelsea, making indulgence quite convenient whenever the mood strikes. It has over 30 mistresses to choose from, allowing you to select your preferred intensity of play.

Located in Chelsea (exact location provided upon booking an appointment) 

 

By Andriana Kanaras


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